We have all felt that moment of sheer panic when we cannot find our wallet or keys. It is frustrating and disorienting. Now, picture this happening multiple times each day, coupled with an overwhelming feeling of confusion and fear. This scenario is a common aspect of life for individuals with dementia. To make things more distressing, when someone with dementia hides things, they may be in places you are not likely to look.
Why would someone with dementia hide things? There are several key conditions that might be at play.
- Paranoia and suspicion: Dementia often brings about an elevated feeling of paranoia and suspicion. The individual may become suspicious of those around them, fearing that others might take their belongings. This heightened sense of mistrust can prompt them to hide their belongings in an attempt to protect them.
- Loss of organizational skills: It might become challenging for someone with dementia to understand the purpose of everyday items or recall where they should be. Hiding items can be a misdirected attempt at organization, a way to manage the stressful task of keeping track of their environment.
- Need for engagement: Rummaging and hiding is often a kind of engagement or activity for someone with dementia. As they lose the capacity to participate in more complex activities, these simpler actions can provide a sense of purpose and occupation. These activities can fill their time and trigger a feeling of accomplishment.
- Memory issues and confusion: Hiding items can be a symptom of the confusion and loss of memory that accompany dementia. As memory fades, a person with dementia may not be able to remember where they put their belongings, leading them to hide items in what seems like a safe spot. This action can give them a feeling of security and help alleviate their anxiety about losing things.
Understanding the causes of this behavior can help you approach the situation with patience and empathy. Try:
- Labeling common hiding spots: Clearly label drawers, cupboards, and storage areas. This can act as a helpful reminder of where things belong and can minimize the possibility of items being hidden in unusual places.
- Maintaining a routine: A predictable daily routine can offer a feeling of security and minimize anxiety. Regularly scheduled meals, rest times, and activities can help create a structured environment that feels safe and familiar.
- Creating a secure and structured environment: Ensure that their living area is organized and free of hazards. Consistency in how furniture and personal items are arranged can reduce confusion and make it easier for them to find what they need.
- Providing engaging, meaningful activities: Keep their minds and hands busy with activities that are appropriate for their abilities and interests. Simple tasks like sorting, folding, or working with sensory objects can be both calming and fulfilling.
We’re also here to partner with you to ease the underlying cause behind hiding items as well as other challenging effects of dementia. Contact us at (213) 383-2273 for more information on our highly creative and specialized in-home dementia care in West Los Angeles, Sherman Oaks, Santa Monica, and the surrounding areas in Los Angeles County.